Journalist Kate Wheeler recently found out that her sister has cancer. In addition to figuring out the best treatment, she’s also had to figure out how best (and how much) to tell her teenage children.
“There’s no easy way to tell your child you are sick but the experts say headlines first, facts next and delete the editorials. Then you need to get ready to field questions. Know that teenagers may not want to talk right away. They will likely be in shock and disbelief and not want many details while they take in the bigger picture, but be prepared just in case.” [Source: Telegraph-Journal (New Brunswick, Canada)]
In her book titled “Parenting Through Crisis,” author Barbara Coloroso uses the acronym TAO to describe what kids need during crisis: Time, Affection and Optimism. Be honest with your kids about tough situations, but be willing and able to find the silver lining, too – even if it just means being grateful that you have access to good medical treatment.
Labels: health, parenting tips
Posted By: Stefanie Hamilton