You know intellectually that your teenager is moving toward more and more independence. You're giving them more choices. You're reducing or changing some of the rules. But teens also need to hear you talk about it. Comment about why you're not going on the church mission trip with them - so they can do an independent activity without you. Notice that they're now able to do some of their clothes shopping without you along (well, for some of it!). Teenagers are striving and working for independence and self-sufficiency, and they need to know that we notice. Find opportunities to show your teen that you notice and support their move toward independence. Verbalizing this to your teens helps their internal growth, and reminds them that you're a willing observer.
NorthStar Center is a program specifically designed to continue the therapeutic process for young adults who have experienced challenges with substance abuse and with accepting personal responsibility for themselves. NorthStar's
progam for teenagers and young adults teaches the skills to live successfully as an independent and interdependent adult.
Posted By: Lori S
